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Sometimes . . .

 . . . there are times when  we finally realize that we need help.  Some things grow until they are just too big for us to handle on our own.  Thankfully we do not have to face these issues and choices alone.  The following offers reputable links and information that we trust.

I hope you will find them helpful. 

Remember - you are never alone. 

"I will never leave you nor forsake you."

                                                       - God

He once had it all: a good education, job opportunities, and eventually a prestigious position at a prosperous international company. But he also had a secret: he was addicted to alcohol. What began as a fling with cigarettes in his high school years turned into a love affair with drinking. He sought alcohol every chance he got, and soon it began to take control of his life. In just a few years, it had cost him everything.

"I lived and breathed alcohol. I had a wife, family, and career but poured them all out into that bottle,” he recalls. “When all hope seemed lost, Global Teen Challenge rescued me."

At his lowest point, he came to Teen Challenge Kenya at the urging of his niece and sister. In just one interview with Teen Challenge, he realized there was hope for him. He gave his life to Christ while enrolled in the program and found freedom from his addiction – a freedom made possible by the love of Jesus.

                                                           - Global Teen Challenge

The following was in one of the books studied in a Bachelor of Biblical Studies degree course a few years back, but the information is still relevant.  Not everyone is at the same level of addiction and not all symptoms will fit everyone but hopefully, you will find it helpful to understand how alcohol addiction works.
 
The text has been edited, but Clyde Narramore is credited with the majority of the content found here.
 
From Chapter 4
Alcoholism
 
Description:
Alcoholism is a disorder associated with the excessive us of intoxicating beverages.  It is estimated that there are over 4 million excessive drinkers in the United States alone.   (These stats are from previous to 1974.)
 
Alcohol has deteriorating effects on the user's personal and social life.  It often leave the home of the alcoholic in a shambles.  He is unable to maintain effective interpersonal relationships with family members and his mis-management of finances causes serious difficulties.  Separation and divorce are often left in the wake of excessive drinking.  In short, the alcoholic is usually left financially, physically and spiritually bankrupt.
 
Occupational difficulties also arise.  The alcoholic may perform inadequately at work, may miss complete days of labor, and may eventually lose him employment.  Alcoholism is no respecter of persons, affecting all socioeconomic levels.   Malnutrition often follows alcoholism, since the heavy drinker usually has a dissrupted routine and does not receive proper nourishment.
 
In small quantities alcohol acts as a stimulant.  However, in increasing amounts it is a depressant.  It has an anesthetic or depressing effect on the central nervous system.  By turning to intoxicating beverages the alcoholic can temporarily escape feelings of insecurity and inferiority and achieve false but gratifying feelings of adequacy. 
 
The development of alcoholism passes through several general phases.  The alcoholic typically begins as a social drinker.  Finding that alcohol depresses his nervous system and temporarily re-lieves tension and anxiety, he gradually increases his consumption.  In time, he finds that he is unable to control his drinking.  Following this phase, the alcoholic turns to the most critical step in chronic alcoholism.  He is taken over almost entirely by alcohol and is unable to control the amount he drinks.
 
If heavy drinking is continued over a period of years, permanent personality deterioration may occur.  Mental disturbances often develop and memory and comprehension may be disrupted.  The alcoholic may show a low threshold of tolerance as well as depressive reactions.  Physical symptoms may also appear.  Cirrhosis of the liver as well as other internal disorders and an over-all physical and muscular degeneration frequently result from chronic alcoholism.
 
The alcoholic is often a person with high aspirations.  His inability (for whatever the reason) to reach these goals leads him to turn away from these and attempt to find temporary feelings of adequacy and superiority by drinking.  (Sometimes feelings of hostility show.)
 
Treatment:
 
One step to the treatment of an alcoholic is the complete removal of liquor. 
 
Medical treatment is available which is effective in conditioning the individual to stop drinking. 
 
Although medical treatment may be effective, it will not resolve the basic conflicts which have led to the disorder.  Through counseling the individual needs to become aware of the factors in his life which led to his inability to any longer tolerate the stress and anxiety .  He needs to realize that his drinking is an attempt to escape these problems, but not a solution to them.   He needs to realize the fact that continued drinking will only exaggerate his present condition.
 
A realization of the why's will offer a better basis for finding other approaches to the problems.  Alcohol is a crutch.  The goal is to get rid of the crutch and get back to good health and happy living.
 
One must also take special precautions when discouraged and "down in the dumps".   It is good to be able to share with a spouse how one feels at this time.  This enables him/her to encourage and change the situation.  Support is important.
 
Most alcoholics who have improved their general health have found that it is much easier to control and defeat the habit.  Therefore it is important to eat healthy food and take care to get enough sleep.  
 
One of the greatest hopes available to the excessive drinker is found in a trust in God.   Matthew 11:28 tells us "Come unto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden and I will give you rest."  A personal trust in in Jesus will bring about a new life with new hope for the future.  The Bible declares:  "Therefore, if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature:  old thiings are passed away; behold, all things are become new."  (II Corinthians 5:17).
 
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to fogive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."  (I John 1:9) 
 
The Scriptures promise that " . . . God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are abole; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it".  (I Corinthians 10:13).  This spiritual help is through, affecting the personality in depth.  It is also lasting, bringing permanent relief.  Among other benefits of spiritual conversion and growth is the new circle of Christian friends which comes with new life in Christ.
 
We must realize that we do not need to strive to please God and gain acceptance.  God's love is ounconditional.  His forgiveness is complete and lasting.  "
 
11For as high as the heavens are above the earth, So great is His lovingkindness toward those who love Him. 12As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our transgressions from us. 13Just as a father has compassion on his children, So the LORD has compassion on those who love Him.…Psalm 103:12
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From "The Ballad of East and West"

Rudyard Kipling (1865 - 1936)

OH, East is East, and West is West, and never the two shall meet,

 

Till Earth and Sky stand presently at God’s great Judgment Seat;

Psalm 103:11 - 13 . . . 11For as high as the heavens are above the earth, So great is His lovingkindness toward those who fear Him. 12As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our transgressions from us. 13Just as a father has compassion on his children, So the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him.…

 
. . . “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” - (Romans 8:1)

A TRUE STORY
 
The following is a true incidence -  having taken place in our early ministry when a fellow probably in his 50's came by the church looking for help.
 
We helped the fellow as well as we could.  We fed him, gave him a place to sleep and spent time listening to his sad history and chatting with him.   He was not a happy fellow you can be sure.  He had allowed his desire for Alcohol to destroy not only his life, but that of his family, he had no self-respect left  and he had no where to go.  He was simply controled by his desire for alcohol.
 
When an alcoholic arrives at the place where this fellow was, he is indeed in bad shape.  When he first arrived, he smelled bad!  His kidneys were shot and he had no control.  With only one change of clothes - (that which he was wearing), I leave the rest to you.  We gave him clean clothes and disposed of his.
 
We were to leave for our church camp the next day so we invited him to come with us - which he did.   He found a friendly place with pastors who treated him well.  He had a place to sleep and food to eat along with trained staff much more knowledgeable at that time than we were.
 
However, a few days after he arrived, he disappeared.  Someone told us that they had passed him on the highway - walking toward town.  Guess he wanted a drink that we didn't provide.  Again, he was being run by his desire for alcohol.
 
I've never forgotten that fellow.  Alcohol had totally ruined his life.
 
 

 No More Excuses - Sept. 6/15

God wants to do a new thing in your life. He wants to bring you into a new level of your destiny. But, are you letting excuses hold you back? It’s easy to come up with excuses, especially when unfair things happen to us or when we’ve been hurt by circumstances or people. Yet, Joel wants to show you in this eye-opening message how to let go of excuses so you can experience the new things God wants to do in your life. Isaiah 42:9-10 says, “The former things have come to pass, and new things I now declare. Sing to the Lord a new song.” Let this message guide you every step of the way to show you how to let go of the old and sing a new song so you can move forward into your bright future! It’s time to step into the new, now!

                                                                               - Joel Osteen

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